Chance & Choice

If I have a chance...

If I have a choice...

God is somehow fair in the creation of humans. No one is perfect. Everybody have their own flaws. Either you have physical flaws, character flaws or that your life is bad... I believed that the moment you are born into this world, your whole life is already path-ed. What is going to happen, unavoidable situations, how much wealth & happiness, disasters or illness bestow upon you and until the day you end your life are all designated... Of course some of these destination can somehow changes with the good or bad karma you contributes throughout your lifespan.

I will rather have physical flaws because with the current technology, all physical attributes can be altered accordingly... So don't bother envy those that may look perfect. They will still have their ugly side of their life... Take a look on the bright side for those that thinks their life sucks. It's a balance.

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When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place. At the right time, that's chance.

When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance.

Being caught up in a moment is not a choice. That's also a chance.

The difference is what happens afterwards….When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you decide to love a person, even with his/her faults, that's not a chance. That's choice.

When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice…… A choice that we make.

Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this:
"Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen." I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mate is still a choice we have to make. We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love... but to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly...

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Well, I have not had any chance of coming across any person for me to make that choice yet... It's only just a drop of my thoughts...

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